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你在哪里,遇到了谁,做了什么

2010/03/06 by dreamsafari 2 Comments


我一直有一个很不好的习惯,好多东西都喜欢随手一扔,例如我写字台靠左手边的第一个抽屉就是我用来扔信用卡签购单的地方。日积月累,也算是小有规模。今天突然心血来潮,全部翻出来,一张张看,一张张回忆。
每一张签购单的背后都有一个故事。在哪里,遇到了谁,干了些什么。事情大多很简单,也许毫不起眼,甚至只是街边咖啡馆随意的小坐。仿佛那张签购单上面还残留那天太阳的温度,和穿过梧桐树叶苍翠的投影。
当然也会想起从前的种种过往,原来生活就是一个很大很大的网,不同的部分之间总是可以互相cross reference。所谓雁过无痕是不可能的,雁过留声才是这个世界的法则。不过好在,现在回忆起过去,确能够心平气和云淡风轻了,回忆起来的都是带着一点点的小幸福。终于体会到张怡筠博士那篇文章的意义。她说,在恋爱中我们需要完成两项重要的心理任务:一、要更了解自己。除自我认知概念外,让两性恋爱中的自己更完整清晰地呈现出来。 二、培养我们爱人的能力。从自小习惯被爱开始学会爱人。两个人都逐渐成长,这无论如何也算是好的过程,所以也可以很平和的回首往事而不会满腔愤怒了。
看Up in the Air的时候,Natalie的一句话给我印象很深刻。她在评价Ryan希望把自己的名字写在客机上的时候说,你们男人总是希望留下些不朽的东西,其实只是出于你们对于死亡的恐惧罢了。大概我是个没啥追求所以也不怕死的人,所以自认为活得也算是随性,很多时候也没有留下点痕迹,博客可以算一个痕迹吧。可是文字毕竟是有很大局限性的,而且博客这么公开的地方,有些事情我不能说太细……发现签购单,随手翻阅,居然能想起来这么多,还真给我带来了一点小惊喜。
那么,小小的期待一下,下一张签购单,我会在哪里,遇到了谁,做了什么?

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